Hey you sexy people!
You are not only meant to be a maid. And no, I do not need a foot stool. I no longer smoke so you do not have to worry about being used as an ashtray. It’s bizarre really how so called mistresses abuse their subs. BDSM was never about personal gain or a one sided gratifying act.
Both parties are meant to understand their part. Play their part. Enjoy each moment although there’ll be times it will be one more than the other. Even though the Dom and Sub are not equals they still have mutual respect for one another and that is where you start.
There are some mistresses who enjoy humiliation and yes there are subs who revel in receiving it. This is all too familiar when a sub enjoys it too much it gets used against you. This should definitely not be the case.
This is not what BDSM is purely about.
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