Most people just don't want to see that living in the here and now is at least as important as thinking about the future. I would even say that you can't really plan for the future if you forget to use the moments in the present. I'm here now and I want to enjoy my life now and you seem to feel the same as me. You also want to enjoy, I can feel that directly and why haven't you called me yet? That would be exactly the step that would bring us closer to our goal, sweetheart.